My friend, Marcy, recently found out that her 12-year-old daughter had a Facebook account (now deleted) even though she was expressly forbidden to have one. Marcy found out by checking her daughter’s email account when the filters on her home computers blocked access to Gmail. (She was helping her daughter get permission to use Gmail on the family laptop, and saw the emails coming in from Facebook.) Now Marcy is looking into programs that will email reports of her daughter’s online activity while she’s at work.
We’ve all heard about “sexting” in the news, the hysteria around it and what kids think about it, too. This leads me to wonder what parents are doing to teach their kids how to be safe – and smart – online. Do you tell your older kids not to put questionable pictures of themselves on Facebook? Have you friended your kids online to monitor them and their friends? (I have several friends who do this.)
What are you telling your children about online safety? At what age should you start the discussion? What rules are you putting in place to protect your children?
Here at Mom Central Technology, we try to let you know about the latest programs to monitor your children’s online behavior from PGKey to Safe Eyes Mobile. Another cyber safety resource is Yahoo!
Here are Yahoo!’s top 10 links for keeping your child safe online:
1. Yahoo! Safely - a complete resource for all things cyber correct.
2. Create a family pledge for Online Safety.
3. Applying a filter to your child’s Yahoo! Mail account is simple by creating a family account to monitor your child’s use of Yahoo! and edit and maintain their account settings.
4. Yahoo! Mail uses the latest technology to combat spam and to help protect you from phishing and viruses. Yahoo!’s spam guard will filter out 97% of all things bad, so your child won’t accidentally click on something.
5. You can flag photos on Flickr for abuse via the “Report Abuse” link that’s available in the footer of every page.
6. Four things to know before your child goes online: info.yahoo.com/safely/us/yahoo.
7. Report abuse on any Yahoo! property at abuse.yahoo.com.
8. Keep private things private. Manage your online profile.
9. Yahoo!'s SafeSearch feature is designed to filter out explicit, adult-oriented content from Yahoo! Search results.
10. Keep up to date with our safety experts blogs.